When a child grows up without a father or with a father who is not involved in their life or is harsh and critical to a child, the ramifications of what occurs can be devastating for a lifetime.  I have ministered to thousands of people around the world and have seen the fallout from what happens when children received wounds in their hearts from a father that never unconditionally loved and cherished their children.   It is important to think about what occurs inside the mind of a child when feeling rejected by their father.  The enemy begins to whisper to the young child in their minds telling them that they cannot be protected by their father. That they cannot trust their father.  So they must begin to protect themselves. This causes the child to turn inward and believe a lie that all people are like their fathers and they cannot trust anyone.  They begin to live a life based in fear.  They must control their circumstances around them.  They begin to manipulate others in order to get what they want.  They often have an unhealthy sexual selfishness that develops where they either want to have sex in a demanding…