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Living a peaceful life in relationships

Most people desire to live a life that is free from strife and arguments.  If you are married to someone who consistently speaks hurtful words, controls you through making you do what they want or else they make your life miserable, or continually strives with you, then it is very hard to enjoy your life.  Some people have gone through divorces and are single yet they become lonely and then settle on marrying someone so they can have someone to talk to and share their lives with but then later they contend with strife similarly to their previous spouse and are more miserable then when they were single.  So it seems like it is a lose-lose situation in the world of marriage and relationships for more than 75% of the people in the world.

Unfortunately, the enemy is behind the majority of strife in relationships as he causes people to hear his voice and then they act upon it or speak out what they are hearing and never realize it.  When a child is hurt by their parents through rejection, control, criticism, sarcasm, or worse – then they begin to hear the enemy speak to them in their minds and believe the words as the truth instead of realizing that some of what they are hearing is a lie.  It is so important when you hear a thought in your head to think where that thought originated from to discern if it is from yourself, the enemy or the Holy Spirit.  Much of what we hear is coming from the enemy and ruining our lives as he tells us to take an offense against someone, to control another person and make them do what the voice tells you, etc.

There are simply so many hurting, lonely people are in this world.  Those who are single will usually long to be married to someone who will just love them unconditionally.  Unfortunately, many of those single people blame everyone else as having the problem instead of looking at themselves in the mirror for the planks in their own eyes.  And most in marriage are miserable and wish they were not married to their current spouse and long to be single again. The enemy is behind it all.  Jezebel marries Ahab.  A taker marries a giver.  A controller marries a controlled.  It is all a spiritual battle that is a reality in the physical.

So what is the answer to all these hurting lonely people who are single and married?  Deliverance from the enemy.  So many Christians are walking around hearing the enemy speak to them and then behave accordingly.  So many unbelievers are also hearing the enemy but since they are not doing anything for the Lord at that time – the enemy is not as worried about them.

Paul wrote that he wished all could be single:

1 Corinthians 1-9 NKJV: “It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I say this as a concession, not as a commandment. For I wish that all men were even as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that.

But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.”

What I have learned being single for almost two years now – is that when it comes to living a completely peaceful life and being able to be focused on things that God wants to accomplish – Paul was right on target – that you can do a lot more for the Lord when single and being directed by God completely, unencumbered by a spouse.  I have seen rapid growth in my Restored to Freedom ministry as more and more people learn what the Lord revealed to me concerning the majority of strife in marriage being related to the spirits of Jezebel and Leviathan at work within one of the parties and then they marry a person with the spirit of Ahab who they can control and manipulate.  I have traveled over 90% of the time in 2017 as more people become aware of this revelation and want me to speak and minister at their churches, mens and women’s events, civic centers, etc around the United States.  My Restored to Freedom book is now available in English, Spanish and German in paperback and Kindle and will become available in an Audio Book in English on Amazon, Audible and iTunes in the next two weeks.  I have written 10 books in the past 18 months.  Host my own TV show called Restored to Freedom in Houston.  Have the largest Facebook support group for Jezebel / Ahab and Leviathan survivors and now have an interactive daily show on Facebook LIVE which thousands tune into.

Had I been married it would have been impossible to see all that the Lord has done to grow the ministry so rapidly.  I would have been distracted to go on dates, spend time with fulfilling my wife’s desires, not been able to travel nearly as much and would have had to get agreement on how much time to devote to the ministry and had less time to focus on hearing the Lord.  So what I am saying is that if you are currently single, then enjoy this season of your life and stop looking to get married just so you won’t feel alone.  Listen to the Lord and do what He says. If you have a spirit of Ahab or Jezebel/Leviathan then work on yourself getting delivered first or you will get right back into another marriage full of control, strife and misery.

If you are married and struggling with constant conflict, then try to get both you and your spouse delivered so you can live in peace, love and joy.  In some cases if your spouse will not take ownership then you may need to separate in order to get your spouse to realize that they need to be set free. If you work with a counselor or pastor, make sure that they completely understand the spirits of Jezebel / Leviathan and Ahab and how to get delivered.  If they don’t know anything about them then move on to someone that does.

There is a 1980’s song called “Maneater” sung by Hall & Oates.  It talks about how beautiful the woman is but how she has a beast in her heart.  It says she will chew you up, she’s a maneater. This song is talking about a woman who hosts a spirit of Jezebel / Leviathan. You can read the lyrics in the chorus below:

Watch out boy she’ll chew you up
(Oh here she comes)
She’s a maneater
(Oh here she comes)
Watch out boy she’ll chew you up
(Oh here she comes)
She’s a maneater

I wouldn’t if I were you
I know what she can do
She’s deadly man, she could really rip your world apart
Mind over matter
Ooh, the beauty is there but a beast is in the heart

Watch out boy she’ll chew you up

The same words can be written about a man who has the spirit of Jezebel / Leviathan.  I talk to women every day who are very sweet and loving but are married to handsome men who treat them horribly behind closed doors.  They lie about them to those in the church and at work and in their family.  The spirit of Jezebel is simply pure evil and when you recognize what is affecting people to behave so poorly then you will become much wiser and more discerning in the future.

When we recognize that the main reason for a lack of peace in our lives is always spiritual – the sooner you will be able to live a life full of peace, love and joy.  So what I am trying to convey in this blog today is that if you are single and lonely or married and miserable, then work on yourself getting freed from any enemy spirits that are afflicting you.  I wrote a book called Choosing A Godly Mate which will help all those who are single in recognizing a person who is truly godly versus a fake.  Many single groups at church are starting to do studies on it to help them to recognize if they are operating out of enemy spirits controlling them.   Once you become freed then you can focus on a new, healthy relationship, and enjoy more peace, love and joy in your life.

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